Christian dating standards list
As a good initial principle here, we should affirm that sex itself (and sexual activity in general) is not inherently negative or sinful.
On the contrary, in the proper context, it is a kind and good gift of God.
Whatever you did, did that interaction reflect of sexual immorality in what you did (Ephesians 5:3-5)?
I am obviously not saying that hugs and kisses of affection or greeting to relatives and the like are out of bounds. In some cultures, kisses of greeting — between members of the same sex or of the opposite sex — as well as hand-holding and other forms of physical expression during normal, non-romantic social intercourse, are more common. You might even be able to talk me into the notion that , "non-leaning-in" hugs of greeting, sympathy, etc.
between men and women who are not romantically involved are OK.
Were you honest with the person about making a commitment to him or her before the Lord, or did you defraud or deceive that person in some way?
Was your for doing what you did to build that person up spiritually — to make that person "more holy" (Ephesians -29)?